Friday, August 31, 2007

Deadends !!

I apologize upfront for the length of this blog, but I wanted to give you the FULL picture ;)

Many parents, like myself, gave up on the Government services and turned to the privately provided services to assure our kids the best education and health services. But the government seems eager to maintain equity in suffering:


(1) Back in late June I received this e-mail as one of the parents of BBS students.

FROM: Katherine Phillips, Al-Bayan Bilingual School Middle School Deputy Principal, Kuwait
US PASSPORT NUMBER: XXXX9279 --- contact ISR if needed.
TO: Whom It May Concern
DATE: June 21, 2007
RE: Detained in Kuwait/In Fear for My Safety

I am a Middle School Vice-Principal at Al-Bayan Bilingual School in Kuwait. I have been employed in Kuwait for 6 years at the same school. One of my primary responsibilities is student discipline. On March 8, 2006, three boys in grade 5 were suspended for fighting. I interviewed the boys, met with my principal and followed normal procedure. There is no stigma here regarding suspension. Students spend the day in the office where they study, are visited by teachers, and are taken to the canteen, etc. It's a normal consequence for fighting; all students are aware of this and the procedure is clearly defined in our Parent Handbook.

In the afternoon of March 8th, I received a phone call from one of the boys' fathers, Mr. Fawaz Khalid Al Marzouq, who is a powerful man in Kuwait. He called to inform me that this situation was "personal," that he is "friends with the emir" and that he planned to "destroy" me. This conversation, which lasted about 9 minutes, was littered with profanities and threats. On March 11, 2006, the parents met with me, my principal and our director, Dr. Brian McCauley, to discuss the suspension. The father requested that if there was an issue involving his child that I would call him immediately. On April 27, 2006, I was requested to write a synopsis of events and to visit the Ministry of Education to answer questions regarding the suspension, describe the room in which the boys spent the school day and provide a copy of our handbook. In June 2006, the father transferred his children to a different private school in Kuwait. Also, we received notification from the Ministry of Education that in-school suspensions were no longer to be applied; instead, parents must be contacted to take their children home.

In February 2007, I learned that a case had been filed against me at the Jabriya Police Department in Kuwait; the charge was "illegal detainment" of his son on March 8, 2006. I answered questions in my director's presence and the Consul from the US Embassy, Mr. Sonny Busa. My lawyer was also present. The police did not suggest that there was any reason for me to be concerned as all of the questions were answered to the apparent satisfaction. On June 13, 2007, I was at the Kuwait International Airport intending to fly to Bahrain. I was stopped at immigration where I was informed that there was a case against me, pending further investigation and that a travel ban had been placed on me. I had not been informed. My lawyer had not been informed. This travel ban was placed upon me 15 months after the boy was suspended. The parent said that he would make this personal and this seems to be what he is intent upon doing.

On Saturday, June 16, 2007, I visited the American Embassy where I met with the Vice Consul, Mr. Jared Caplan, who informed me that he sympathized but could do nothing to lift the travel ban. He suggested that I get an older Kuwaiti man to appeal to Mr. Marzouq. I was told on Wednesday that my file would be transferred to another agency for review so the ban could be lifted. Five working days later, the whereabouts of my file are uncertain. I have been told that my file is in 2 different places; this seems to be a delay tactic. Why? Because I angered an influential Kuwaiti national who is at the top of the social register both locally and at the US Embassy? On I visited the office of a police inspector named Falah Al Otaibi, whose office is in Salmiya. He is a police official who was to evaluate my file and determine if I could leave or not. He stated that he didn't have my file. I visited him on June 17th and 18th. On June 18th, not five minutes after I left his office with my director, the Business Officer of my school and another school representative, I called Mr. Jared Caplan, Vice-Consul at the US Embassy to gain his insight into the situation and to see if any progress had been made to help me leave. He was completely aware of my visit to Mr. Al Otaibi's office and instructed that I not return as it "interfered."

Several Kuwaiti families are aware of my situation but they are not in a position to help or they don't want to get involved. They have ALL said that I should go to my embassy because my embassy can help me. The fact that the embassy can't seems shocking to everyone. Many people also question why this accusation from Mr. Marzouk is placed solely on me - not the school, not the principal, not the director of school. I feel that I am being used as an example because I am a single, American woman and he wants to show others that he can do what he said which is to "destroy" me. Yesterday, June 20, 2007, I received a paper from Mr. Al Otaibi's office in Salmiya which lifted the travel ban. This waiver had been granted by the Kuwait Minister of the Interior. Not long after the Minister released me, he reverted his decision at the request of the Marzouq family or his representatives. I went to the airport last night, only to learn that I couldn't leave. I am in fear for my safety. If the Embassy can't help me, then who can? I contacted the FBI in Riyad, Saudi Arabia yesterday and talked to "Mike" who couldn't give me his last name. He was non-committal but did suggest that he thought the embassy should be able to get me out. Mr. Sonny Busa has informed me that they are "working on it." That seems a little vague and I am not sure if the US Embassy completely realizes the level of danger that I feel that I am in. Why does Mr. Marzouq want me in Kuwait during the summer when no one from my school will be in country to offer their support? To make me feel vulnerable? He is well-connected and his friends are supporting his mission to damage me in any way that he can. What's next? I do not feel safe. I am not safe. I need someone from the US to acknowledge the urgency of my situation and coordinate my release. I committed no crime. I am simply the victim of "wasta" which roughly translates into "influence/pressure" at a high level.


I called some of the school officials and they confirmed the story. Many Kuwaiti politicians and businessmen tried their best to help and they all failed. Finally the matter reached the Prime Minster. He, after a long struggle, managed to get her out of the country. And rumor has it that the Father is suing the government for interfering with the Court procedures!!

Needless to say, she is not coming back and this is the reaction among the expatriates teachers’ society:

http://www.kuwaittimes.net/read_news.php?newsid=MTA4Mzg3MTM5OQ



(2) Ministry of Education insisted on spreading its success onto the private education by forcing its curriculum on those schools. So, in addition to the typical Arabic, Islamic Studies and Social Studies they have added a special curriculum for Quran. This of course had to be slotted in at the expense of Science and Math hours that gave the good schools international accreditation.


(3) Finally, the MOE became eager to share its management successes too and has announced that within the next 3 years they expect all private school to have 100% Kuwaiti Management!!!



My questions are:

1. Why?!!
2. How can we stop this mess?
3. What do I do with my kids?

18 comments:

EniGma said...
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Anonymous said...

I used to go to the Gulf English School back in the 80's/90's, where we had a wonderful British principal, and the owner was originally Palestinian. Then in 1997 it was bought by a Kuwaiti who had a 100% Kuwaiti management. The school became unbearable. It felt like a public school with English teachers. They changed the curiculum, the uniform (into a cheap looking yellow one), the new teachers were nowhere near the quality of the teachers before. Oh, and the owner split the campus so that he can add the other school he owned in the same location (so 2 private schools on 1 campus- the cheapness).

GES was once one of the top British schools, now it's one of the worst. Thanks to the 100% Kuwaiti management.

Anonymous said...

oh the poor soul, that is very scary!!

in my opinion the strongest quote from the article is :

"a student's father did everything he could to make life very difficult for this Vice Principal. He succeeded, but at the same time he made Kuwait look like a very dangerous and corrupt place to work."



Ignorance wins again...whats wrong with us Kuwaiti ppl...why did we become so ignorant...this father why did he choose an english school for his son??? I bet you the world his only reason is so that flan and 3lan can say "ohh mashallah weldah ydres int eh most expensive and best schools in kuwait" and aham shay the expensive part 6ab3an!!

I do reach dead ends when I defend Kuwait too,, we do have intellgent, productive and ambitious people amoung us...but why are they alienated!!

Its all about money and power now...and of course the kissing of A$$ to get you what you want!!

what happened to us!!!

and as my father says, all this chaos happened after the gulf war!! its like ppl were sprayed with an ignorance gas?!!?!

Now
the situation with the private schools really messes things up for my return plans...cuz my kids are supposed to attend private schools...but if the management is gonna be kuwaiti then i have second doubts...not becuz i am generalizing but becuz of past history. I went to a private school when i was in kuwait and it was the best time ever, but teh situation was EXACTLY the same as what annonymous mentioned!!!

I dont want that for my kids.

but what makes me relax a bit is the awakening thats happening now in kuwait and I mean politically and 7ata socially....ppl are starting to realize there are MANY problems and hopefully these problems will be solved not just addressed!!!

Temetwir said...

way i see it, elmarzoug acted like such a ninny especially since the boy is in the 5th grade and (according to my childhood records) fighting is part of growing up, if not part of making friends at that age

but from what i have gathered from the information included within the email, the whole thing with the travel ban and making the teacher's life a mess was done through legitimate channels (still unfortunate nevertheless of course)

also, as far as i know, normal procedure is that you are not "told" that you have a case ruling pending or that there's a travel ban on you etc etc .. as far as i know, it's your responsibility to check that before travelling (esim eljehaz elmekhtas ma ya7therni al7en lelasaf; and please correct me if i'm misinformed)

that being said, the only part i don't get is reverting the decision of waivering the travel ban .. if she had the document in hand at the airport, then on what grounds was the document nullified

it seems to me that BBS as the institute responsible for the teacher did not do its job in fighting the case.. clearly, procedure was followed as dictated by the referred to parent handbook, and i'm assuming all parents have to sign something to acknowledge that they have read and understood the rules their children (and they) will be subject to once they're within school parameters..
in other words, i really dont see why there was the necessity to go to the US embassy to take care of the whole ordeal, rather than just overlook it since one of their citizens is involved, ya3ni eb rayee: i really dont expect that the teacher wants to have all charges dropped just because the embassy interfered .. rather than BBS as a body plead their case as they and their rules are in question

i dont intend to rationalize elmarzoug's actions, as i see them as both shameful and quite pathetic.. but i really cant say he's pulled a lot of strings up until the travel ban waiver was cancelled after it was issued officially.. everything else, from a totally objective standpoint, i see BBS as a body is to blame for their shortcomings

UmmEl3yal said...

Anon Dear,
I know what you mean. And I am sure the same will happen to BBS if lead by Kuwaiti Teachers. What puzzles me is the rationale. What is the point of the change? Did the goverment schools succeed with their limited curriculum and creativity? Have the "foriegner" really failed? Based on what? As usual, another baseless decision :(


7akima love,
It is scary. What worried me the most is the guy's son. What lesson has he learned from all that? he will end up an enhanced copy of his father and grandfather before him :( Allah yaster!


Temiiiiiii .. How are you?! Missed you so much! Hope all is well :)
many things went wrong; (1) there was no basis for the charges of kidnapping and any half brain judge could see that, (2) the school is FULL of influential people who simply tried to speed up the process through proper channnels and couldn't, Finally, (3) the minister of interior and the PM promised to end the situation within 24 hours and BOTH failed. Do you still think there is no evidence of "influence"?

The school and the PTA went by the book. We as parents have tried every possible mean. But non worked :(

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Anonymous said...

welcome 2 kuwait where you need wasta 2 breath

Anonymous said...

المشكلة اني أمس كلمت شخص علاقاته بالتربية قوية جدا... رد علي ان القصة بعيده كل البعد عن الحقيقة و حجته أن لو كان المجني عليه من جنسية أخرى ممكن بس أمريكي سفارته ماتخليه يتبهدل!! الزبدة ان احنا موراضين نعترف بان الكويت صار فيها ممارسات أشبه ماتكون بالمافيه من هالوسايط اللي تتكاثر بالانشطار! ماقول الا الله يستر على عيالنا ولا الديره رايحه رايحه
على قولة ملكة الغناء العربي فيروز "شو بدي بالبلاد.. الله يخلي الاولاد و هييييي" وسلامتكم

يابانية تقليدي(@)

Anonymous said...

Dear Ummel3yal,

I'm so depressed after reviewing the case of this poor lady and I truly can't help wondering which school is still acceptable on the educational and ethical levels for my little children to join in the near future? I really need an answer because I was considering Bayan as a first option especially that I have personally seen its outcome throughout the years!

Awaiting your reply..

Yours,
Geish@

UmmEl3yal said...

7amodi .. zaratna el baraka :) hathi is umm el was6at !


يابانية تقليدي(@) Hala wallah :) Ana minziman gayla sho badi bilawlad ,, elmoshkila ina elblad gamat takil lilwlad :(


Geish@ hon .. I seriously thought about taking my kids out of BBS. But:
1) what happened is not the school fault. I know they did all they can. But guys like this parent are there in any other school.

2) By international standards the school's Math and Science is the best.

3) Their Arabic is better than all private schools and much better than the Goverment's

4) Despite all the "influential" parents in the school, the assesment and dicipline is fair and strict.

So, in short, the school has its shortcomings, but its still better that other alternatives :(

eshda3wa said...

i heard about this story and has been following it since it first started

i am OUTRAGED

chageing the whole management because one little spoiled brat got into a fite and went crying to his equally spoilt daddy

shal country ele evolves at the whims of a 10 year old!!

im even more surprised that not alot of ppl know about this!
with ur permission i would like to post this on my blog

UmmEl3yal said...

Eshda3wa hon,

The kids went back to school today. And its funny how the school evolved and got modified depending on the relationship with the family :)

Please feel free to post the story. If you want I can send you the original e-mail as it had a lot more details.

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UmmEl3yal said...

Anon dear I'm sorry but I can't read your comment. For some reason it appears as plain boxes :( I tried changing the page encoding but nothing appears.

eshda3wa said...

please do

send it on eshda3wa@gmail.com

thank u!

Temetwir said...

omm le3yal,
i beg to differ

1. if there was no basis for the charges, then how were they taken into consideration to open a case that consequently prevented her from travelling?

point(s) being:
a) it was through a "legitimate channel" (but personally, i dont see it as the 'right' one - but thats a diff story)
b) if we were to suggest that elmarzoug managed to put together a case that had no legal basis documented to the degree of a travel ban (which i think is automatic anyway if you have a case against you pending *think mo dafi3 mokalamaat heh*), then what are we really saying about our judicial system?

elmo7ageg mo eb kaifah yesajel gathaaya, i would say trust me but i'm sure you're well connected to ask around and see that this is true

2. i was not suggesting that those influential people the school is affiliated with speed up any process; rather, the school as an institution fights the charges brought against one of its member of staff through court if need be

3. im sure elmarzoug used his individual influence and connections to make this matter very hard for the teacher,, but if he has done it through legitimate channels - which i believe he has - then i will be disappointed if any minister, MP, or a person affiliated with the school was ABLE to drop the charges

i hope this clears up why i think the school itself is still the one to blame for its shortcomings

but once again let me make sure that i personally find elmarzoug's actions pathetic

UmmEl3yal said...

Dear Timi,

Can you imagine what is means if every teacher felt he/she will be taken to court for diciplining a student? The school rule are clear and documented. We receive them EVERY year and sign aknowledging them. The procedures include direct suspension and dismissal. The school will not function if they will be faced with court for every case.

The VP exercised her authority within the boundaries of her school. What can the case be?

Cases are made everyday for the silliest reasons. People do it to their maids, employees and their own family members. It all depends on the decency and the intelligence of the Investigator; who is in the end a human with weaknesses and flaws.

The father told the school director "I will prison her in Kuwait just like she imprisoned my son" .. Simple revenge, no legal case what so ever :(

The case will be dismissed once it reaches the courts because it has no basis. But by then our international reputation and the private school system will be destroyed not to mention the VP mental and psychological health :(

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